How to discuss this most thorny of subjects without either offending someone or getting it wrong? The answers are that you can’t. I’m going to get this wrong for some and offend others.
Recently, Sullivan posted an update from ASF’s Alison Singer who intimated that ASF were on the search for a cure. I want to say that a) I don’t believe Alison Singer was very well quoted and b) Even if she weren’t, it was still a worrying quote for some.
I don’t think Alison, whom I _have_ forgiven (as if she needed it) for her statements regarding Autism Every Day is – like lots of us, including me – very good at saying the exact right thing at the right time. I doubt she has a team of PR spinners ready to oversee every word and I think that maybe those that _are_ in charge of that PR aren’t on the same wavelength as Alsion Singer.
So much for ASF. What about the dreaded ‘c’ word. I’m on record as saying that autistic people don’t need a cure. I still think that. I still believe that autistic people should be afforded every opportunity and every assistance to be who they are regardless of who others think they should be. I know people – those who believe that life is black and white – take issue with that but I think its perfectly valid to respect those who do not want a hypothetical cure to not partake of that hypothetical cure.
But.
There are those autistic people who _do_ want a hypothetical cure. For those, we are duty bound to look for one. Even if we strongly disagree with their reasons, if we claim to respect the right of people to have differeing neurologies, we cannot _ignore_ the ideas produced by those people. We can disagree with them, debate them, whatever. But we cannot and never should ignore their right to have those ideas. To do so stands against everything that neurodiversity stands for in my opinion. Some things are inconvenient truths. This, to me, is one. My own answer to this inconvenient truth is that I don’t like it. I disagree with it. I will still respect the opinions of those who want it. They posses a validation I cannot – they are just as autistic as my own daughter and I cannot and will not force my own ideas on these people.
So, to me, we – those who do not believe in the necssity of a cure – should be reframing the debate. Instead of saying ‘no cure, not now, not ever’ we should (in my opinion) by saying ‘if there ever is a cure, heres how to use it wisely, without pressure or contrivance’.
I think there will be a cure one day. I think its unavoidable. Science is amoral and will search where it will. It has given us electricity and we built the computer and the electric chair. Morality had no say in the discovery of electricity but it shaped the development of the death penalty and how we moraly share information. I think that how we approach the time that this cure is invented/discovered/developed is vital. We can choose to fight against it and lose or we can choose to help shape it to be a morally responsible idea.

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